Leave a Cheater Gain a Life

Author: Tracy Schorn
Publisher: Running Press
ISBN: 0762459050
Format: PDF
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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here’s advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity—but saving your sanity. When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters—their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

Leave a Cheater Gain a Life

Author: Tracy Schorn
Publisher: Hachette UK
ISBN: 0762459050
Format: PDF, Kindle
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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity—but saving your sanity. When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters—their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

The Chump Lady Survival Guide to Infidelity

Author: Tracy Schorn
Publisher: CreateSpace
ISBN: 9781493554003
Format: PDF
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The Chump Lady Survival Guide to Infidelity is for anyone who has ever been played for a fool, lied to, and left as carrion for the divorce lawyers. Here's a book about infidelity that is not about saving your marriage single-handedly -- it's about saving your sanity. Based on the writings from her popular blog "Chump Lady," Tracy Schorn's guide is the decoder ring you need to translate the manipulations of cheaters. Full of advice, gallows humor, and cartoons deflating the pomposity of cheaters, this is your step-by-step guide to navigate your way out of the infidelity nightmare.

Transcending Post Infidelity Stress Disorder

Author: Dennis C. Ortman
Publisher: Celestial Arts
ISBN: 0307807800
Format: PDF, ePub, Mobi
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Have you been traumatized by infidelity? The phrase "broken heart" belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Using PTSD treatment as a model, Dr. Ortman will show you, step by step, how to: • work through conflicting emotions • Understand yourself and your partner • Make important life decisions Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery, such as guided meditations and journaling, and explores heart-wrenchingly familiar case studies of couples struggling with monogamy. By the end of this book, you will have completed the six stages of healing and emerged with a whole heart, a full spirit, and the freedom to love again. From the Trade Paperback edition.

Parents Who Cheat

Author: Ana Nogales, Ph.D.
Publisher: Health Communications, Inc.
ISBN: 0757398340
Format: PDF, ePub, Docs
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Whether you are a betrayed parent, a parent who cheated, or an adult child whose parent was unfaithful, reading this book will help you understand and courageously deal with the adverse effects of parental infidelity. In Parents Who Cheat, Ana Nogales, Ph.D., combines her reflections from her thirty-five years of clinical practice with her current research, which includes an unprecedented 'Parents Who Cheat Survey,' to reveal the profound effects on children and adult children wehn one parent betrays the other. What are the emotional consequences for the child—young or adult—when his or her parent cheats? What does infidelity teach children, and is there a difference between how boys and girls process and react to the circumstances? How can parents undergoing an infidelity crisis help their child cope with his or her reactions? How might adult children deal with their own parental infidelity-related issues? Parents Who Cheat explains how a child's perception of love and marriage can be forever altered, how self-esteem and trust are often severely damaged, and why adult children whose parents were unfaithful often choose unfaithful partners or become unfaithful themselves. Ana Nogales offers advice and practical solutions and points the way toward healing, forgiveness, and healthier and more trusting relationships with parents and partners.

When Your Lover Is a Liar

Author: Susan Forward
Publisher: Harper Collins
ISBN: 0060931159
Format: PDF, Mobi
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Have you ever been lied to by a lover? In this straightforward and supportive book, therapist Susan Forward profiles the wide variety of liars, shows you how to deal with the lies -- from the benign to the lethal -- that these men spin, and gives practical strategies to stop them before they ruin your relationship and, ultimately, your life. Once you find out the truth about your lover and his lies, what do you do? Forward offers practical, proven, step-by-step methods for healing the wounds caused by his deception and betrayal. She provides all the communication and behavioral techniques you need to deal with a lover's lies, telling you exactly what to say, when and how to respond to his reactions, and how to present your requirements for staying in the relationship. With understanding and compassion, she helps you decide whether your relationship can be saved and shows you how to move beyond doubt and regret if you feel that it can't. But whether you stay or go, you can learn to love and trust again.

Runaway Husbands

Author: Vikki Stark
Publisher:
ISBN: 9780986472107
Format: PDF, ePub, Docs
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Based on a study of over 400 women worldwide, this volume explores and offers healing strategies to women whose lives have been turned upside down by Wife Abandonment Syndrome.

It Ain t You Babe

Author: Isabelle O'Shea
Publisher: Createspace Independent Pub
ISBN: 9781478106111
Format: PDF, Mobi
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“That night I did something I had never done before: I went into his email account. I felt terrible doing this behind his back, but what I found devastated me……” So begins the story of one woman's discovery of her husband's affair and its aftermath. Her absorbing story of emotional survival is complemented by advice direct from top legal, investigative, financial and counseling professionals on how to handle this if it happens to you. It shares how many famous (and not so famous) women dealt with infidelity and divorce. The book also deals with the big “was it me?” question asked by so many women (and men) whose marriages or relationships come to an unplanned, unexpected end due to infidelity.In this book you will learn: How to tell if you are about to be dumped How to become your own detectiveWhat you must do before you confront your spouse Why men cheat on even the most loving and beautiful women How to get a divorce even if you are brokeHow to act before, during and after court How to handle the emotions of divorce Helping your children go through a divorce, How to stay financially solvent How to deal with depression, heartbreak & lonelinessHow to find new relationshipsHow to create your own best future“I wish I'd had this when the bottom fell out for me….any woman in this situation should give this book a read.” K D., Director, Grassroots & Media Advocacy, American Heart Association, Mid-Atlantic Affiliate

Secrets

Author: Jonathan Daugherty
Publisher: Be Broken Ministries, Inc.
ISBN: 1606969390
Format: PDF, ePub, Docs
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I wish it never happened.' These are the words of Jonathan Daugherty, a man who had a secret, one that shaped his view of life and relationships for thirteen years. Secrets is his story of overcoming addiction, infidelity, and finally finding the path that led him to a place of true peace and freedom. In this powerful and personal book, Jonathan reveals: --The nature and danger of secrets --The consequences of emotional detachment --Insights for dealing with addiction, death, brokenness, and healing --The secret to living a life of peace and joy Secrets is a true story of one man's journey through brokenness and despair that will captivate you, encourage you, and ultimately motivate you to live your own life to the fullest. Whether you are living a double life of secrecy and lies or not, Secrets will move you to reconsider how you live your life from this moment on, challenging you to live each day with no more regrets.