Sex Workers As Virtual Boyfriends

Author: Joseph Itiel
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1317712935
Format: PDF, Kindle
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Beyond lust, create companionship with your sex workers! Many more men are willing to buy sex than to admit the fact. Joseph Itiel is not only willing to admit it--he has the courage and style to create “virtual” relationships with hustlers. These ongoing professional relationships are a step beyond cold, anonymous sex for sale. Though the economic basis remains the same--an open exchange of cash for sex--the association is also honest, affectionate, and sexually fulfilling. He explains how you can do the same in Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends, a companion volume to his best-selling A Consumer's Guide to Male Hustlers (Haworth 1998). From his own experience, stretching over four decades and many nations, the author suggests ways to transform the relationship between a client and his escort from a crass commercial transaction to a true camaraderie. Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends also offers an intimate glimpse into the gay lifestyle in San Francisco and around the world before the AIDS epidemic and in these days of safer sex. Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends presents practical tips and real-life vignettes, including: an experiment to help you decide if you could be a sex worker (See if you measure up!) an appendix containing a comprehensive list of sex workers advertising on the World Wide Web seven guidelines for friendly relations with your escort a guide to the etiquette of negotiable affection Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends is shocking, sexy, literate, and fun. It also can help you find the affection you want--at a price you can afford.

Gay Men and Anal Eroticism

Author: Steven Gregory Underwood
Publisher: Psychology Press
ISBN: 9781560233756
Format: PDF, ePub
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Gay men reveal their preference—and the reasons behind it! Gay Men and Anal Eroticism: Tops, Bottoms, and Versatiles is a no-holds-barred examination of one of society's most persistent taboos. In a remarkably candid collection of frank and forthright interviews, 21 gay men talk about the role anal sex plays in their lives and relationships and their choices to act as insertive (“top”) or receptive (“bottom”) partners—or both (“versatile”). Ranging in age from 21 to 65, the men discuss the reasons behind (and consequences of) their choices; how they define their sexual roles (and how those roles are defined by gay society); issues of power, trust, and vulnerability; and the concept (in both straight and gay society) that tops and bottoms are socially and morally unequal. These unique interviews, conducted by the author in the Boston and Provincetown areas, celebrate choice in gay men's sexuality while debating whether preference is genetically based or socially formed—a debate largely ignored in social science studies. The men interviewed—including gay porn icon Cole Tucker—discuss perceptions muddied by stereotypes, preconceived notions, and exaggerated scenarios, and the meanings gay men assign to anal sex, including dominance and submission roles related to masculine/feminine, aggressive/passive implications. The interviews also cover each subject's personal history as a gay man, safe sex in the AIDS era, childhood traumas, first-time sexual encounters, loves, desires, and obsessions. The interviews for Gay Men and Anal Eroticism provide insights that are equal parts thoughtful and outrageous, humorous and heartbreaking: Aaron, age 24: “I sort of fell into this image of myself as being a very aggressive bottom, a guy who knew what he wanted and who didn't want any wimps applying.” Danny, 21: “There's a mindset about being a top … it's kinda like maintaining the ship.” Sam, 36: “I hate to say it, but I'm a bottom … I don't like to be identified like that because I feel it turns me into something all the way from my feet up to my head.” Eddie, 42: “I guess I enjoy more being a top than a bottom because I haven't found a good top.” and Cole Tucker: “A physical act doesn't really make you a top or a bottom. It's a function, an organic function of what you do. It's the dynamics of where you come from.” The revealing disclosures of Gay Men and Anal Eroticism show equality in man-to-man sex to be as varied as the number of individuals who pursue it. Addressing traditional misunderstandings and misconceptions of gay men as either “limp-wrested fairies” or masculine “trade,” the book uncovers that there is much more to this complex issue than personal preference.

Three Faces in the Mirror

Author: Joseph Itiel
Publisher: iUniverse
ISBN: 0595398464
Format: PDF
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Even in this tiny fragment of philosophy I managed to miss two essential points. "Know thyself," and "The unexamined life is not worth living," were Socrates' maxims. I never bothered to ask myself "Who am I?" A brilliant University of California-Berkeley philosophy student, Eloy Wise suffers from multiple personality disorder. Each of his three personalities is capable of taking him into different realms of experience and self-exploration, and it is not long before his life changes dramatically. Eloy is a promising and attractive young man who likes the company of older men from various cultures. Romantic and idealistic Harmony is a bright university student determined to become the lover of his controversial and charismatic philosophy professor. And José Luis, the third personality sharing this one body, is a reckless young Chicano ready for sexual adventures, seeking his paternal heritage in Mexico. From a Northern California college campus to the gay bars of Mexico and San Francisco, Three Faces in the Mirror reveals one young man's journey to find his true self.

Escort Tales

Author: Joseph Itiel
Publisher: Psychology Press
ISBN: 9781560233923
Format: PDF, ePub
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In the candidly erotic Escort Tales, Itiel explores the private thoughts and fascinating lives of gay male escorts from around the world: Manila, Hong Kong, Acapulco and Jerusalem. They have very different educational and social backgrounds, and are strikingly different in their appearances and attitudes. Still, they share common bonds, including a canny knowledge of the importance of good timing in the sex business and an intuitive knowledge of how to relate to their clients.

I ll cover you in 20 bills

Author: Michael Rivers
Publisher: Harrington Park Press
ISBN: 9781560234715
Format: PDF, ePub, Mobi
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This book breaks down the stereotypes associated with seventeen different professions ranging from plastic surgeon to porn star and exposes the secrets and insecurities of the men who work in them. Body consciousness is not just for women anymore -- meet the men who create and sell the male images plastered across billboards, magazines, and your television screen. The men in this revealing book include adult film star Tad Austin; adult film director Jerry Douglas; plastic surgeon Dr. Douglas Gervais; female impersonator Cee Cee Russell; photographer Vince Barone; and artist J. Alan Owens as well as men whose professions include personal fitness trainer, body builder, talent scout, model, dancer, erotic masseuse, and professional escort.

Public Access ICT Across Cultures

Author: Francisco J Proenza
Publisher: MIT Press
ISBN: 0262527375
Format: PDF, Docs
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A systematic assessment of the impact of public access to computers and the Internet, with findings from developing countries in South America, Asia, and Africa.

A Year of Sex Fantasy Tales

Author: Juan Salanova
Publisher: Tektime
ISBN: 8873049419
Format: PDF, Kindle
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12 stories, 12 characters, 6 men, 6 women. It begins in 2015 and each story represents a country further east and 10 years before the previous one, until it goes around the world. In all of them, sex beats as a life force. Beat by beat, full of bodily sensitivity, twelve characters, six women and six men, enter worlds where reason is overwhelmed by passion, diving into the past on a continuous journey to the east. At every stop you will face real people, patients with social diseases that make our planet such a complex and sometimes inhospitable world. Sex made into fantasy as a vital impulse will be the constant that will animate the development of your existence. An impressive voyeuristic visit to the last century of our history. PUBLISHER: TEKTIME

Dirty Young Men and Other Gay Stories

Author: Joseph Itiel
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1317712633
Format: PDF, Docs
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Come on a journey of erotic discovery where young guys seek out old gentlemen! It is well known that to most gay men, a shapely, youthful body is the ultimate turn-on. But a few young guys, sometimes even married ones, are erotically attracted to old men, because of their age. Joseph Itiel (author of Escort Tales; A Consumer’s Guide to Male Hustlers; and Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends), now in his early seventies, has discovered such young fellows. In Dirty Young Men and Other Gay Stories, he relates his experiences with them in intimate detail. Dirty Young Men and Other Gay Stories is packed full of true younger-loves-older stories from all walks of life and from different countries. From the author: “It took me until my middle fifties to become a sex object. Before reaching this age, nobody had ever been infatuated with my looks or physique. I hadn’t been selected out of a crowd just because someone thought I would be a good lay. Wouldn’t it be nice, I kept hoping, if for once I would fulfill somebody’s sexual fantasies, and be picked for just this reason? Well, at the age of fifty-five, my daydreams started to become a reality. Finally, I became a sex object, a ’man toy,’ to cute guys much younger than myself.” Dirty Young Men and Other Gay Stories is packed full of erotic true stories from the author’s real life experience. Here is a sample of what you’ll find: “Master of the Dildo”—the fulfillment of a young man’s desire for penetration by a man old enough to be his father, notwithstanding his young (female) sweetheart “Bligh’s Bounty”—the adventures of an older man in San Francisco’s first gay go-go bar “The Hypnotic Suggestion”—an older “straight” man seeks to discover his true identity by exploring, through hypnosis, a fleeting gay moment in his past “An Affair in the Galilee Mountains”—a bittersweet love affair between a “professor” and a younger, uneducated local man “The Dominatrix”—the author befriends (and beds) a much younger man who, it turns out, makes his living as a cross-dressing dominatrix, administering beatings to “straight” men for money “Teaching a Man to Fish”—the author teaches two attractive young men the art of escorting From Galilee to Lisbon to San Francisco, Joseph Itiel’s Dirty Young Men and Other Gay Stories will take you on an erotic journey that you won’t soon forget!

Being Virtual

Author: Davey Winder
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons
ISBN: 9780470712085
Format: PDF, ePub, Docs
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Thanks to the Internet, it has never been so easy to become the person of your wildest dreams. Immersive 3D worlds such as Second Life and THERE.com provide an escape route from the ordinary, into a virtual world where you have the power to mould your life in any way you please. Forget about walking, wheelchair users can fly. Pensioners wipe away the pains of age, discovering youthful exuberance and making young friends once more. No wonder it has become harder than ever to honestly answer the question: who am I? In Being Virtual, Davey Winder looks at how an increasing number of us are living part-real, part-virtual lives, and how it affects who we are. He looks at the opportunities and dangers that a virtual identity offers us, how we juggle our real and online lives, and what happens when one spills over into the other... He uses his own personal experiences to bring the issues to life, and backs them up with the real-life stories of others and testimony from the experts. Along the way, he looks at some fascinating questions such as: Are you a virtual liar? What happens when our virtual and real worlds collide? Why will you talk to anyone online, but nobody on the train to work? Why do so many middle-aged men transform into teenage girls online? Is it possible to have any secrets in such a connected world? Being Virtual gives a glimpse into the future of human identity, and is a must-read for anyone who uses the Internet to enhance - or escape from - their 'ordinary' life. About the author Davey Winder has been a freelance journalist for 16 years, and is Contributing Editor of the best-selling IT magazine, PC Pro. He has picked up many awards including Technology Journalist of the Year and IT Security Journalist of the Year. A founder member of the Internet Society of England and author of more than 20 books, his blog can be found at: http://happygeeknewmedia.blogspot.com/